How many calories do you actually need?
It really depends on your goals. First, understand that your body burns calories three ways:
1. Resting energy
What keeps your heart beating and your body warm, even asleep. That's your BMR, 60 to 75% of your day.
2. TDEE (total daily energy expenditure)
Everything you do day to day: walking, cooking, standing, training. Add that to your resting energy and you get your TDEE.
3. Added up
Add your resting and active energy together and you get your maintenance calories, the total that holds your weight. We split it by rest day and training day. For most people the difference is 200 to 400 calories, though it varies a lot from person to person.
Now, the amount you need depends on your goal: a DEFICIT (eat under maintenance to lose weight and fat), a BULK (eat over maintenance to add weight and muscle), or MAINTENANCE (eat what you burn to hold your weight, or recomp).